Due to maternal health, I have requested a C section for the birth of my daughter, as after much research, this will be the safest option for both of us. I am aware that I can help our daughter have a calm birth even when born by C-section. I know by helping my daughter have a gentle birth she will benefit emotionally and physically, short and long term.
Cooking up a storm (disaster!)Â
I'm not a proud baker. Not in the slightest. I think cakes and bakes have always been a matter of luck rather than charm or talent (and a hefty dose of "cheating") Yes, Dr Oetker, and Betty Crocker I'm looking at you! It's probably a good thing. Because now we have the toddler. Baking has... Continue Reading →
The Newborn’s Stomach
I can’t word this better myself. This is so important for new mum’s to understand.
I see many new families in the hospital, breastfeeding clinic, and in their homes with my private practice, and I hear many common questions. One of the recurring themes comes across in statements like “my baby can’t be getting very much” or “my baby is feeding so frequently, I must not have milk. This cannot be normal!” There are many charts on the Internet that show an illustration of the size of a newborn’s stomach, I felt putting these illustrations into real world sizes we can see would be helpful.
Below is an illustration I have created showing the approximate size and volume of a newborn’s stomach on day one, day three, at one week, and at one month. Newborns’ tummies are tiny, and cannot/should not take in large volumes, so they need to feed frequently. In the first day or two, their little tummy fills with 2-15 ml during…
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Come on Mama!Â
Ugh. If something stresses me out, it's getting the brood out of the house. No. Really. As soon as we all need to leave as a family, I can feel the stress levels rising. Leaving the house just with the toddler is relatively stress free, but, add husband and teen to the mix, and it... Continue Reading →
Breastfeeding Open Letter
Can we please get this seen, heard, read - it matters! It's not about breastmilk vs formula, bressure, mummy wars or whatever else you might think. It's about huge cuts to spending that are leading to women & children being failed by the system. The people who signed this letter are experts. Why aren't the... Continue Reading →
The Dark Side Of Mama
"I must shout less" I hear myself say it. The little angel on my shoulder claps with glee. Yes! Shout less she says. You'll be happier. Shouting makes me miserable. Yet still I do it. I do it all the time. Every time I hear myself shout, I hate myself a little more. The shouting isn't... Continue Reading →
Sentimental ClutterÂ
A few weeks ago, I started my journey to become a domestic goddess. This was mostly aided by 3 exciting new toys. A carpet cleaner, a steam cleaner and a humble little book (the life changing magic of tidying by Marie Kondo, or KM) intended to inspire me to declutter the house. Never did I imagine... Continue Reading →
Day 20
Randomly the other day, I chose to donate to a strangers charity page. This stranger has a mutual friend who had shared his JustGiving link. The stranger in question is running the London Marathon to raise funds for children with Cancer. His story resonated with me, and as a mother and brain tumour survivor I felt compelled to donate.
In return, amongst all the donations this gent has already received, he dedicated his training run the next day to myself.
It’s the small things in this world that give you a happy feeling. Paul. Thank you!
Best of luck for your marathon!
Zx
Zoe, I don’t know you, never met you, but I am so very thankful for your support in trying to raise much needed funds – and awareness – for the charity Children with Cancer. And for sharing your story with me (in short). Thank you, this is your run!

After what felt like ruining just about every joint and muscle in my body over the last few days, climaxing in yesterday’s 19k run, I was convinced I would find and use just about any excuse to NOT run today. But what do you know. I woke up feeling great, not too stiff, and quite rested and up for the weeks worth of work, training and other unexpected curve balls life might have in store this week. So come lunchtime I was actually liking the idea of hitting the Thames Walk eastwards, a clear sky and warm temperature, and a casual…
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#Bressure?Â
Does the recent report about the benefits of breastfeeding put pressure on mums? http://www.itv.com/news/2016-01-29/increased-breastfeeding-could-prevent-thousands-of-child-deaths-study-claims/ Just scroll down till you see it. Personally. I say no. Stating facts about BF is simply that. A statement of facts. It's not there to pressurise. It's there to inform! Breastfeeding is tough. That's for sure. The best thing anyone... Continue Reading →
Domestic goddess; Pupa
This week hopefully marks the beginning of a turning point in the general cleanliness and day to day running of the household. I've had 3 very exciting deliveries: 1) Vax Carpet cleaner. 2) Vax steam mop/cleaner 3) The life changing magic of tidying- Marie Kondo The house isn't a disaster by any means. We're... Continue Reading →
